Immigration-Permesso di Soggiorno-Parte due

 

The Friday before my appointment at the Questura, I decided to make a “trial run” to the location to make sure I knew how to get there and where it was.  My appointment was at 9 am on Monday morning, and I am not used to getting up at the god awful time of the day, and I knew my faculties would not be at their best.  Besides, in Italy, I have difficulty finding things.  I needed to take the bus because of the distance, and public transportation has its challenges.  This is not an Italy thing, this is public transportation in general.  Having used public transportation in Boston, I can say that knowing where to go and how to get there on public transportation is a real art.

Anyway, the trial run turned out to be a great idea, considering I got on the wrong bus once, and missed the stop the second time.  I was on the bus in excess of 2 hours, primarily because I had nothing else to do and it was a good cheap way to see parts of the city that I hadn’t seen before.  I located the Questura, and felt secure about my plan for Monday…..at least that part of the plan.

Not know what to expect is the hardest part sometimes.  There is the issue of legal documents, a foreign language, and government employees.  Governments seem to have strong similarities wherever you go.  I got up early, having not slept well anyway from the anxiety of it all, and made my way to the bus stop and found the Questura with no problems in about 15 minutes.  I arrived at the station at 8:20 a.m. for a 9:05 “appointment”.  There were about 200 people there…of all nationalities, trying to figure out what to do next.  Seeing a policeman behind a roped off line area, I told him in Italian that I had an appointment for my Permesso.  He asked to see the letter for the appointment, and then he gave me a number to watch for on the board.  I went inside and waited.  There were about 6 windows opened, and my number was 179, and they were on 33.  Wishing I had brought a book, my IPOD or at least had some breakfast, I luckily found a place to sit, and wait, and wait, and wait.  I noticed from watching the other people who were ahead of me that they approached the window, handed the clerk the letter for the appointment, and received another number.  It appeared to be some type of sorting system based on what transaction you were trying to accomplish.

After 2 hours, my number was called, and I went to the window to show my passport, and the letter of appointment.  I received another number and returned to my seat to wait.  The waiting wasn’t boring, as the people from all over the world were quite entertaining.  There were couples, and individuals, and families all there to transact with the immigration services of Italy.  There were a few “heated” moments, which were loud, but I was unable to determine what exactly was happening, and one man was escorted out by the police.  Frankly, I can understand the frustration.  This is not an easy process. 

Going through the process, gives a different perspective on immigration in general, and I wonder about the difficulties folks experience in the USA.  It is easy to see why there might be a lot of “illegal” immigrants, because if you don’t understand the language or have access to the internet or other information sources, I really don’t know how you do it! 

Anyway, after my 2nd two hour wait, I was called to the window, and asked for the letter, my passport, and 4 passport sized photos.  No other documents were requested.  I then had to give my fingerprints individually on a small machine outside the window, at the instruction of the clerk.  Once the fingerprints where done, and I had signed a small card, which I believe he used to identify the fingerprints, I was given another letter with another appointment for October 19, at 2:46 pm.  It seems I might actually get the document at that appointment!!!!!  Yeah!  Stay tuned!

A Letter to a Friend

A Letter to a Friend

This is an actual letter I wrote to one of my friends in Boston.  At her suggestion I am publishing it to everyone. 

Ciao Bella!

I am sitting in my apartment, and the church bells are tolling outside loudly, which always brings a smile to my face.  The weather here has been mostly nice, but some rain lately as the cool weather settles in.  The temperature is lovely, and on the sunny days, it’s heavenly.  Tonight I start Italian classes, which are free, sponsored by the government!  They meet from 3:30-7:30 two times per week.  I don’t know how I will manage it when I start school, but I will see how it goes.  Tomorrow I will meet with a book group called A Book with a View to discuss The Scarlett Letter, by Nathanial Hawthorne. 
 
I don’t know if I mentioned to you before, but I have decided to stay in Florence and not go to Rome at this time.  I can’t bear the thought of leaving here again, so will stay until it no longer makes me happy or I am bored.  I found a new apartment that I will move into in December.   I am excited about the new apartment.  It is on the other side of the river near the Pitti Palace.  Only a 5 minute walk from the Ponte Vecchio on a mostly residential street.   It has a large master bedroom and a very small guest room with a twin bed, and a kitchen living room combo.  At 650 square feet, it is slightly larger than my apartment in Boston.  It has a lot of windows which I like, and fits nicely into my price range, which I was beginning to worry about! 
 
I haven’t done much else since I have been here.  My days are spent in the mornings 10-2, writing for my blog.  It is not up yet, but Will is working on it, and hopefully it will be up soon.  I will send “an announcement” when it is ready.  It is going to be www.anamericaninitaly.com and will have info on how to, daily living, culture, restaurants, food, etc.  I have written over 20 entries so far, so a good start that will take some of the pressure off.  After 2 I usually clean the house a little, get ready to go out and run errands and shop for dinner.  I met a woman from Finland who I have had a great time with, but she is leaving for Spain on Sunday.  We usually have dinner in my apartment together, drink wine, and then stroll the piazzas in the evening…..life is good.
 
Kabbour visits on the weekends, and we have had a great time.  The shift in seeing each other more often has gone incredibly smoothly, and it’s very nice right now.  He has been working straight for a few months, but had to change apartments in Carrara, but I think for him, things are good the way they are right now also.  No pressure on either of us.  We both have friends here and on the weekends spend time with them in my apartment cooking or out in the park or piazelle michelangelo.
 
I saw Mimo last week on the street, and he looked great.  He asked me to go for coffee, but I didn’t.  We talked for about an hour and he walked me to my apartment, and the minute we were alone, he tried to kiss me.  It would be nice to be friends with him, but he just won’t leave it at that, so I will not see him again.  I know however, if I ever have a problem or need someone right away, he will help me, and that is a nice thing to have.
 
Hope you are doing well, and enjoying the autumn in New England.  I don’t think I ever said thank you for the beautiful card and note inside.  I opened it when I got on the plane, and it was such a beautiful send off.  This past week, I felt really homesick, but am better now.  I guess that will happen from time to time.  I got on the phone with my mother, Dad, Nick, Will, and Kelly, so feel better now.  I have a Skype account, so don’t be surprised if I call you sometime to say hello.
 
You take care.    Bacio, Karen

Dinner Party

Yesterday, I had my first dinner party at my apartment in Italy.  Six people in 300 square feet is cozy.  Thankfully, that is only one room, so there is no need for anyone to “migrate” towards the kitchen…you are in the kitchen, and the dining room, and the living room.  Because I have “immigrated” to Italy, my friends are mostly other immigrants….with a few Italians thrown in.  This group consisted of me, my Moroccan boyfriend, 2 of his Moroccan friends, one of his friends Italian girlfriend, and my new friend from Finland.  Italian is the only common language, but we know it in varying degrees, so we have to translate for each other.  The Morrocans speak Italian, Arabic, and French, the Italian speaks Italian and French, and the woman from Finland speaks Finnish, Italian and English.  There was quite a lot of noise while we were cooking and having conversations about this, that, and the other.

Kabbour, my  boyfriend, made a Tangine dajaj, from Morocco, which was delicious.  It is made of chicken, olives, lemons, potatoes, tomatoes, onions, and garlic.  It is like a stew and is very spicy and served with thick crusty bread.  He made a salad of olives, tomatoes, and olive oil with hot peppers thrown in for good measure.

I kept the wine glasses filled and we blasted Bruce Springsteen from my IPOD docking station.  What a perfect Sunday evening.

Free Italian Classes!

I discovered at a meeting of A Friend in Florence, (see topic with this heading) that the Commune, or the township of Florence government provides Italian Classes to immigrants to Italy!  What a novel idea, teaching people who come to the country how to speak the language!  Wow!  I had not expected this.  I spent thousands of dollars to go to private language schools in both Italy and in Boston.

In order to take advantage of these classes, I went to the Instituto Calamandria on via Ghibellini, 77 to register.  The office hours there are from 3:30-6:30 Monday-Friday.  There are two level classes offered.  There is a beginner class and an intermediate class.  I opted for the intermediate class, which meets on Tuesday and Thursday from 3:30-7:30 in the afternoon.  These classes start on October 5 and run for the entire school year.  This is quite a commitment.  I am certain, in addition to the classes, there will be homework.

In order to be eligible for the classes, you must bring a copy of your passport, a copy of your Permesso di Soggiorno, and a passport photo.  There is an administrative fee of 10 euro.  You will also need to purchase a text book for the classes. 

My teacher is Patrizia, and she is excellent.  She has lived in Florence all of her life, and has been a teacher for 20 years.  She has one son, and is full of energy.  She makes the 4 hours go by quickly and has a variety of activities to keep us entertained.

It is difficult to know how many students are in the class, because there are many college students who try to work these classes around their university schedules.  They are not often there, but there are 6 of us who are their regularly, and usually another 4 show up.  The small class size makes it great for learning.  Since we are all intermediate level, but have a wide range of backgrounds and familiarity with the language, we are starting at a more elementary level to get everyone on the same page before moving forward.  This is a great refresher, and much needed for me! 

Patrizia has thrown in another 2 hours on Friday, which is voluntary solely for conversation!

A Friend in Florence

One of my "friends" in Florence, Edgar

A Moroccan friend of mine told me once that to be successful living in another country you needed to have a family here.  By this, he meant that you needed people to count on, that you could turn to when you needed something, or were homesick, or had questions about how to go about doing something in your new location.  He has lived in Italy for 3 years now, and learned the language on the street.  There is a large Moroccan community, and it was easy to see by his interactions with them, that he had a “family” here.

When I lived in Italy before, wanting to experience as much of the Italian culture as possible, I practically “shunned” other Americans.  I felt that in order to completely immerse myself in the culture I had to somehow give up my own culture and take on the “Italian Ways”.   Coming here forever, I took a different approach, and started looking for ways to create my “family” here.

I have several friends who I have met over the course of the 4 years that I have been coming to Florence steadily, but none of them are English speaking, and many of them are Italians.  The significance of this is that while I can speak Italian, it is not my first language, so sometimes describing something to someone, or explaining something is difficult.  Additionally, Italians have not experienced Italy the way an immigrant does.   They have certain rights and privileges that they were born into and do not have to go through the bureaucracy for paperwork to stay in the country, work, learn the language etc.  They don’t even really know how to go about it.  Think about it.  If someone from another country wanted to immigrate to the USA, would you know what to tell them to do to make that happen?  Ok.  So, I started to look on line, through the many expat sites that are there, for support groups in Florence.  That is how I located A Friend in Florence.  You can learn more about them here www.Afriendinflorence.com .

I have attended one meeting, and there were about 20 people there.  Mostly Americans, but others as well, such as Australian, Scottish, Norwegian, English speaking Italians, and British.  All of them were there for the same reason, and they had lived in Florence anywhere from 20 years to 1 month.  I learned of an English newspaper, free Italian language classes, a concert with Tim Robbins, a wine festival, and a community garden project that the group is working on.  In addition, I learned that the group was created for the exact reason my friend had told me…to create a family, or community of our own in a foreign country. 

I am looking forward to spending more time with this group!